Love

Love cares, respects, protects, builds, doesn’t harm, prepares and grows everyday!

Don’t let “love” make you lose control of yourself. Don’t blame love for unhealthy behavior that lead to violence and lack of tolerance.

You simply DO NOT destroy, traumatize, terrorize or abuse in the name of love to enforce (impose) your opinions or power unto others. That is lack of self control and attempts to control THE situation. This reveals weakness and while I can lend empathy to help others become strong when they’re weak, wrong is wrong and I CANNOT let you get lost and confuse manipulation and overt acts of desperation with love.

Love is a beautiful ability to have an a gorgeous emotion to feel It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. When we love and forgive we’re not giving others the right to continue the abuse, oppress us, or abuse power, we’re healing within, we’re become capable of managing our own emotions and controlling our thoughts.

If you’re showing “love” for what you believe in, or to anyone you say you love with expressions of violence in order to “be heard” I exhort you to get help—for your own mental, spiritual, and physical health. Seek freedom indeed, not by being told what to do but by being guided on how to do what you desire the most.

We all have enough at one point or another, I can understand…frustration and anger turned inwards becomes depression, don’t limit your ability to express yourself in a healthy way. Do not destroy yourself, you were created in someone’s perfect image.

Again, violence becomes abuse of power and it is not the way.

Seek counsel and guidance my dear THAT IS THE BEST WAY, PRAY WITHOUT CEASING.

Violence isn’t the WAY, NOT THE WAY—get out. Do something about it, please!

Violent excitement exhausts the mind and leaves it withered and sterile“. -Francois Fenelon

I am here for you if you don’t know where to #start!

Don’t forget we have free strategy session, let’s figure things out together.

With my best love in Christ and your best interest at heart,

Your coach Denise Kilby!

©️2021 Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC. All rights reserved.


Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others. After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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