Our self-love should be enough that makes others want to love us . No One For Sure will love you the same way and with the same strength that you could. No one will ever appreciate you like you could. No one will ever validate you like you could and deserve to. You have the … Continue reading Let that Love be Enough.
What Colors Are You Seeing
As you go moving forward to new possibilities—moving past the pain, drama and trauma, from your childhood, past relationships, this past year even, and closing out the doors from the past. Life will begin to present you with different colors to choose from—these I will call new pathways. It’s up to you whether you want … Continue reading What Colors Are You Seeing
Be There For Yourself
Growing up with an unknown mental illness can cause a person to become an isolated, deprived and withdrawn from affection, socially awkward—hard to understand adult. I was first taken to see a mental health professional at the age of 12/13 after a serious panic attack that caused me to experience extreme histeria and delusional thoughts. … Continue reading Be There For Yourself
Hold On
Hold on: Suffering comes with the blessing Don't let this scare you away... Monday No one wants to feel pain, isolation, oppression and what it feels like an unmeasurable amount of suffering. Thankfully, we have God’s word to take as a promises of His great love for us! That word that reminds us in 1 … Continue reading Hold On
Trauma Therapy & Affairs
Let’s talk about Trauma Therapy, and Affairs. Press here to listen to this episode from my Podcast But, first I want us to take a look at the definition of affair in general, and in personal/marital relationships. af·fair /əˈfer/ noun 1. an event or sequence of events of a specified kind or that has … Continue reading Trauma Therapy & Affairs
Mental Health
If you or someone you know is feeling misunderstood and isolated, there are confidential services available virtually and over the phone.Get guidance, counseling or free resources and referrals. You are not alone and my goal is to help! Start the year right and string by getting to know yourself better, meeting your mental and spiritual … Continue reading Mental Health
Give Yourself Grace
. Give yourself some grace 🤍 Some of us spend a lot of our earthly years attempting to look for the best qualities in people—giving #grace, #forgiving and attempting to #forget making it one of our primary #goals (“to live in peace”) “in order heal & move on.” Truth is that you’ve already been through … Continue reading Give Yourself Grace
Love
Love cares, respects, protects, builds, doesn’t harm, prepares and grows everyday! Don’t let “love” make you lose control of yourself. Don't blame love for unhealthy behavior that lead to violence and lack of tolerance. You simply DO NOT destroy, traumatize, terrorize or abuse in the name of love to enforce (impose) your opinions or power … Continue reading Love
Healthy Boundaries
Tuesday Thoughts 💭 Healthy Boundaries: COVID-19 Life Lessons! Something I’ve noticed, is how during this pandemic to somehow avoid the rapid spread of the #COVID virus or to minimize being in closed tight spaces with people who might carry the infection that could get others sick and are thus considered unsafe there’s a waiting line … Continue reading Healthy Boundaries
December I Welcome You
Labor Pain Welcome and embrace December with cheers and love! Perhaps you’ve been waiting for a long time in silence unsure whether you’re going to receive something you’ve been long promised, and suddenly noticed that this uncertain year is coming to an end but I want to encourage you to NOT GIVE UP! There’s still … Continue reading December I Welcome You
Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC Assoc. 
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