Mental and Emotional Pain are Real Trauma People who have been exposed to a traumatic experience can have lingering emotional reactions and mental pain, just how victims of the emotional or psychological abuse can develop trauma as a result of the abuse. However, that’s not the only time people can be traumatized. After talking to … Continue reading Mental and Emotional Pain
In Your Darkest Season
During your darkest season… it can seem as though everyone is living a happy story of success, blessings and peace. Meanwhile you’re in the pits of regrets, sadness, anger, confusion, guilt, fear, and misbelief. You find yourself asking God one too many questions and it feels as thought He’s shut His ears to your cry … Continue reading In Your Darkest Season
Let that Love be Enough.
Our self-love should be enough that makes others want to love us . No One For Sure will love you the same way and with the same strength that you could. No one will ever appreciate you like you could. No one will ever validate you like you could and deserve to. You have the … Continue reading Let that Love be Enough.
Mental Obstacles
What are your mental roadblocks my friends? The land is already promised!!!Meaning the land already belongs to you just like the land already belonged to the Israelites. But when the Israelite’s faith was tested to action they lacked confidence. Despite wanting and needing the milk and honey they freaked out when they saw how hard … Continue reading Mental Obstacles
Accountability
Holding someone accountable should never pain the person trying to help. This should keep things simple for today. Holding someone accountable for their own actions should never be hard on the person trying to help them. Keep it simple.What are you doing to change your current situation?How are you taking care of your mental health?How … Continue reading Accountability
Mental Health
If you or someone you know is feeling misunderstood and isolated, there are confidential services available virtually and over the phone.Get guidance, counseling or free resources and referrals. You are not alone and my goal is to help! Start the year right and string by getting to know yourself better, meeting your mental and spiritual … Continue reading Mental Health
Love
Love cares, respects, protects, builds, doesn’t harm, prepares and grows everyday! Don’t let “love” make you lose control of yourself. Don't blame love for unhealthy behavior that lead to violence and lack of tolerance. You simply DO NOT destroy, traumatize, terrorize or abuse in the name of love to enforce (impose) your opinions or power … Continue reading Love
New Podcast
Hello my beloved readers and valuable clients. We are on Apple-Podcasts!! Here I leave you with some new content that you'll be able to listed to while working out, commuting to work, working, or while you're trying to connect with those meaningful individuals in your life. Enjoy it, learn from it, ask me questions if … Continue reading New Podcast
Healthy Boundaries
Tuesday Thoughts 💭 Healthy Boundaries: COVID-19 Life Lessons! Something I’ve noticed, is how during this pandemic to somehow avoid the rapid spread of the #COVID virus or to minimize being in closed tight spaces with people who might carry the infection that could get others sick and are thus considered unsafe there’s a waiting line … Continue reading Healthy Boundaries
Fostering Security
Secured parents raised secured adults! When parents foster security within themselves or as a couple they are modeling this behavior and in the matter become more capable to secure their parenting journey. Parenting is something that no one wants to be told how to do it, but we all wish someone told us the secret … Continue reading Fostering Security
Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC Assoc. 
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