Wednesday Wedge: Life Change

My life when I decided to look at myself. Wednesday Wedge: time to close the gap For many years I lived captive by pain and fear. Scared of what they might think or say of me, withdrawing from the good things in life unable to going anywhere. When I looked at myself is when IContinue reading “Wednesday Wedge: Life Change”

Clear Your Thoughts

Have you thought of the power of your thought? Every action we take begins with a thought. Following I leave with a few points to help you validate them, understand them, and take action base on the results you want to see. 1. More validating less victimizing: People will see you the way you portraitContinue reading “Clear Your Thoughts”

Train Your Brain

Tips to train your brain to look for what’s right rather than for what’s wrong. Journal daily: Look for what could be resolved rather than for what’s wrong. This could take about 5min Write down 5things that you’re grateful for. Declare that today will be different. Right down your negative thoughts. Weight the feelings; ofContinue reading “Train Your Brain”

Mental Obstacles

What are your mental roadblocks my friends? The land is already promised!!!Meaning the land already belongs to you just like the land already belonged to the Israelites. But when the Israelite’s faith was tested to action they lacked confidence. Despite wanting and needing the milk and honey they freaked out when they saw how hardContinue reading “Mental Obstacles”

When I First Got Married

When I first got married I believed my commitment was with with husband, I promised to love him, honor him, respect him, care for him, and be there for him until death did us apart.I wanted to make sure that he understood this full well. That he got the point that this oath was madeContinue reading “When I First Got Married”

Accountability

Holding someone accountable should never pain the person trying to help. This should keep things simple for today. Holding someone accountable for their own actions should never be hard on the person trying to help them. Keep it simple.What are you doing to change your current situation?How are you taking care of your mental health?HowContinue reading “Accountability”

Trauma Therapy & Affairs

                                Let’s talk about Trauma Therapy, and Affairs. Press here to listen to this episode from my Podcast But, first I want us to take a look at the definition of affair in general, and in personal/marital relationships. af·fair /əˈfer/ noun 1. an event or sequence of events of a specified kind or that hasContinue reading “Trauma Therapy & Affairs”

Spiritual Self-Care = Freedom

Wednesday Wedge Hello, my beloved readers! I know it’s been a little while since I last wrote to you. I’ve missed you all (believe me) and I apologize with a “sorry not sorry” note, umm…in case that you missed on some encouraging, empowering and equipping reading. But while I was gone I was seeking theContinue reading “Spiritual Self-Care = Freedom”

The Day of The Lord

“Dear friends, this is now my second letter to you. I have written both of them as reminders to stimulate you to wholesome thinking. I want you to recall the words spoken in the past by the holy prophets and the command given by our Lord and Savior through your apostles. Above all, you mustContinue reading “The Day of The Lord”

Love

Love cares, respects, protects, builds, doesn’t harm, prepares and grows everyday! Don’t let “love” make you lose control of yourself. Don’t blame love for unhealthy behavior that lead to violence and lack of tolerance. You simply DO NOT destroy, traumatize, terrorize or abuse in the name of love to enforce (impose) your opinions or powerContinue reading “Love”