Mental and Emotional Pain are Real Trauma People who have been exposed to a traumatic experience can have lingering emotional reactions and mental pain, just how victims of the emotional or psychological abuse can develop trauma as a result of the abuse. However, that’s not the only time people can be traumatized. After talking to … Continue reading Mental and Emotional Pain
Biology of Love Desire & Attraction
Today’s Wednesday Wedge is on Relationships, Discernment and Communication: to bridge the gap let us wedge across the BIOLOGY OF LOVE DESIRE & ATTRACTION. What happens in the brain when you close proximity with someone you’re physically attracted to? Something begins to happen in your brain as you meet someone who you are attracted to. … Continue reading Biology of Love Desire & Attraction
Your Thoughts Can Lie to You!
What we believe is usually connected with an idea of the truth but is not always the truth. Our thoughts or beliefs are not always the reality simply because they’re connected to our ideas, as valid as they may be. However, I’d like to make something clear from the start of this. This does not … Continue reading Your Thoughts Can Lie to You!
Clear Your Thoughts
Have you thought of the power of your thought? Every action we take begins with a thought. Following I leave with a few points to help you validate them, understand them, and take action base on the results you want to see. 1. More validating less victimizing: People will see you the way you portrait … Continue reading Clear Your Thoughts
Train Your Brain
Tips to train your brain to look for what’s right rather than for what’s wrong. Journal daily: Look for what could be resolved rather than for what’s wrong. This could take about 5min Write down 5things that you’re grateful for. Declare that today will be different. Right down your negative thoughts. Weight the feelings; of … Continue reading Train Your Brain
What Colors Are You Seeing
As you go moving forward to new possibilities—moving past the pain, drama and trauma, from your childhood, past relationships, this past year even, and closing out the doors from the past. Life will begin to present you with different colors to choose from—these I will call new pathways. It’s up to you whether you want … Continue reading What Colors Are You Seeing
Be There For Yourself
Growing up with an unknown mental illness can cause a person to become an isolated, deprived and withdrawn from affection, socially awkward—hard to understand adult. I was first taken to see a mental health professional at the age of 12/13 after a serious panic attack that caused me to experience extreme histeria and delusional thoughts. … Continue reading Be There For Yourself
Trauma Therapy & Affairs
Let’s talk about Trauma Therapy, and Affairs. Press here to listen to this episode from my Podcast But, first I want us to take a look at the definition of affair in general, and in personal/marital relationships. af·fair /əˈfer/ noun 1. an event or sequence of events of a specified kind or that has … Continue reading Trauma Therapy & Affairs
Spiritual Self-Care = Freedom
Wednesday Wedge Hello, my beloved readers! I know it’s been a little while since I last wrote to you. I’ve missed you all (believe me) and I apologize with a “sorry not sorry” note, umm...in case that you missed on some encouraging, empowering and equipping reading. But while I was gone I was seeking the … Continue reading Spiritual Self-Care = Freedom
Mental Health
If you or someone you know is feeling misunderstood and isolated, there are confidential services available virtually and over the phone.Get guidance, counseling or free resources and referrals. You are not alone and my goal is to help! Start the year right and string by getting to know yourself better, meeting your mental and spiritual … Continue reading Mental Health
Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC Assoc. 
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