Resilience

Let the day perish in which I was born, and the night that said, ‘A man-child is conceived”.

“Why did I not die at birth, come forth from the womb and expire?”.

“Or why was I not buried like a stillborn child, like an infant that never sees the light?”.

“Why is light given to one who cannot see the way, whom God has fenced in?”.

The above supplications, lamenting and complaining are from the same person that had previously said:

“Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised.”

Yes, this man was Job—a man in anguish in distress, after suffering, and facing a crisis, when he lost his children, his properties and was living in poor meager health…

We can find the Scriptures in (Job: 3:3, 11,16 &23) (Job 1:21)

A bit contradicting if you asked me huh, more like confusing. I could say he had a mental illness more than a spiritual one.

However, he was spiritually searching, mourning, grieving and crying to the right source allowing his soul to be set free and looking for healing in all directions within the same source—indeed in order for his mind to be grounded to be able to come back to his senses and process what was taking place in his life at the current moment.

How many people do that nowadays. He had to go through all of that in order to know that he was not abandoned, he was not forgotten about, his friends didn’t hated him and he was going to receive what he had lost in multiples.

He was being processed.

How many reading this today can relate with Job?

How many give God praise and Glory and then see that the crisis doesn’t cease and wish they were swallowed by the earth?

How many ask for patience and then want out in the midst of difficulties?

Oh dear I know the feeling I’ve been there—I know about a crisis or two or three, too many. LIFE IS HARD! Yes, life is what you make it, (they say) I’m still in the making of mine.

Truth is that life comes with unexpected turn and we don’t which direction to go, we simply allow the wheel of our spirit to let our source guide us to the right direction. Trusting God as our shaft to turn our wheels is the best we can do after letting the clutch connect with out engines.

There’s time for everything! If you learn to seek in the right places you will get more than what you have lost!

Seek for help in the right source my friend!

With much love as always!

—Denise Kilby


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Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to better help others. After studying Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University. I decided to make of Life Coaching my career thus I became certified as an Advanced Christian Life Coach by studying at Light University through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). I obtained my international credentialing through the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for times as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower, encourage and equip others, by instilling a positive change, on individuals. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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