The way you position yourself matters

The way you position yourself these days matters.

This is specially to those who are looking up to you to find hope, help, healing, encouragement and motivation to keep going.

Individuals tend to become anxious when they’re in close places for a long time, and their minds can play tricks on them (take your thoughts captive) even if they go out everyday or have the luxury of opening their doors and sitting outside they can easily say “I can’t stand being locked in this house.”

Lets think outside our heads, yes, take your focus place else. Leave yourself aside for a minute and think of others:


1. Take moment and think what life must be like for those who are truly locked, or enclosed in small places for years or months at a time.


2. Imagine your life in a hospital bed (perhaps waiting to die or see if you make it) and being truly alone.


3. What would you do if because of your lack of responsibility and selfishness the person you loved the most ends up dying alone in a hospital bed?

Wake up! During this time when even the absurdity is permissible in search for a change of hearts, is when those who TRULY believe and trust God must model that behavior to the #souls that God is #seeking!

With praise and worship your situation can change: “About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them.”

‭‭Acts‬ ‭16:25‬ ‭

We are in this together: “The jailer woke up, and when he saw the prison doors open, he drew his sword and was about to kill himself because he thought the prisoners had escaped. But Paul shouted, “Don’t harm yourself! We are all here!””

‭‭Acts‬ ‭16:27-28‬ ‭-

Don’t be afraid:

Fear not, for I am with you;

Be not dismayed, for I am your God.

I will strengthen you,

Yes, I will help you,

I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’

Isaiah 41:10

I want to encourage you to enjoy yours and join others in prayer, and support each other.

#youaremore #stayawake #sundayvibes

©️2020 Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coach. All rights reserved.

Healing is Coming!

Please follow the link and declare healing over hours. We all need a move and our God will never fail, we will see a victory, the battle belongs to the Lord.

Receive the relevant word.

He will win this war, His people will come to Him as a result of all this!

Pick a Random Person and Surprise Them

Do Good Without Looking at Whom

Original post first shared in Spanish 5/16/19

If you are still unsure of what you can do different today, here I have a suggestion for you, “do something for somebody (randomly) who has never done anything for you”.

Kindness is the biggest act of love and when we show kindness (especially random kindness) we surprise ourselves with how deep we can love and how unconditional God’s love is for EVERYONE!

Don’t try to be selective about the person, because if you try to think about who has never done anything for you A LOT of people will come to that list, the cards will turn to yourself AGAIN, and this is not about you (not today) this is about doing and giving to someone else.

Don’t get me wrong you will be rewarded, but you have to learn how to put yourself last (wholeheartedly) so then God can put you first!

Take note of this very important three points that will help you be more clear tomorrow:

  1. Don’t do for others just because it looks good, at the end everyone will know the truth. #truth
  2. Give without expectation, those who give with love will ALWAYS receive a rearward from above #trust
  3. Love yourself enough to know that you don’t have to prove yourself, you have to be yourself and that will be your best proof of who you are #genuineness

Be the change that you want to see in others, do not wait for someone to do for YOU what you want, do for them what THEY want first. Remember the domino effect.

NOTE: The Spanish post was a trial to see if I have a Spanish audience who could also benefit from my blog and posts, please if you know anyone share the post and I will find the means and time to create more posts in Spanish or an effective translation tool so everyone can be well edified!

My beloved, my readers, my support, my clients, my motivation, as always with the best interest at heart

—Your coach and Lay Christian counselor, 

Denise Kilby

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coach & Lay Christian Counselor. All rights reserved.

How are you loving today?

Unconditional Love

No matter the time

No matter the space

No matter the distance

No matter the people

No matter issues

No matter means

No matter ways


  1. Love should never be measured by what you give, but by what you truly feel and how you show it instead.
  2. Love doesn’t change by the circumstances, or emotions.
  3. Feelings can be hurt, but we have to learn how to love like Jesus did, unconditionally.
  4. His feelings were hurt, He was human too, yet He didn’t stop loving.
  5. Check in with yourself to see how are you loving those you say “say you love unconditionally” love doesn’t play games, doesn’t expire, it’s eternal!

Are you one of those people who only “loves” emotionally? Or do you truly love? Examine yourself today, and stop checking on the people around you.

Have a wonderful day my friend.

Now I must tell you, I have faced some situations recently that have lefts me with very little options but to examine myself and check on my feelings towards other people and I have come to the realization that when I love I truly LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY!!

I would had not been speaking unless I had lived it or had been trained to speak speak about about it!

I am here for you!

You already know, with your best interest at heart ♥️

(Ps. You may see a lot of changes when comes to in the sites name and domain lately but they are to better serve you as a consumer, as everything I do is to bring you the best services possible, and information. Thank you for your patiently understanding.)

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coach Lay Christian Counselor. All rights reserved.