Glennon Doyle came to a realization during a very difficult breakup in her marriage that “It’s not right to expect our every need to be met by one person” and I honestly couldn’t agree with her anymore.
But can we apply that to our everyday life?
How about if we see every single person inside an organization and groups as individuals rather than groups a whole and a ball of people?Can we try to change our way of thinking about them, and notice that each one of them have individual legs, arms, heads, hearts, minds and guess what a SOUL… believe it or not!
ALSO—don’t you EVER expect to be able to meet your every need (you’re not God my dear).
Don’t expect to be able to meet everyone else’s needs either.
Don’t expect to be able have someone else meet your every need (let’s be realistic here-wouldn’t it be awesome though?).
But most importantly don’t mask yourself with different characters to try to please #everyone especially yourself and the way you view this world.
Unfortunately our worldview is shaped by the way we have been brought up as child, by our society and as members of diverse religious groups, church and diferente organizations that we may be part of.
However the good news is that YOU ARE MORE than the way you may see the world right now, than those who have betrayed you, or have in some way shaped the way you see yourself and the world today, and There’s NEW HOPE here TODAY.
ADULTS, TODAY I tell you, that it is a GREAT day to change the way you see others and the way you see yourself.
Go head on first for a positive change !
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Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC
Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others.
After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC).
As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this.
My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools.
My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change.
I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty.
My advise to you, with the best love I have,
“Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby
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