Pick a Random Person and Surprise Them

Do Good Without Looking at Whom

Original post first shared in Spanish 5/16/19

If you are still unsure of what you can do different today, here I have a suggestion for you, “do something for somebody (randomly) who has never done anything for you”.

Kindness is the biggest act of love and when we show kindness (especially random kindness) we surprise ourselves with how deep we can love and how unconditional God’s love is for EVERYONE!

Don’t try to be selective about the person, because if you try to think about who has never done anything for you A LOT of people will come to that list, the cards will turn to yourself AGAIN, and this is not about you (not today) this is about doing and giving to someone else.

Don’t get me wrong you will be rewarded, but you have to learn how to put yourself last (wholeheartedly) so then God can put you first!

Take note of this very important three points that will help you be more clear tomorrow:

  1. Don’t do for others just because it looks good, at the end everyone will know the truth. #truth
  2. Give without expectation, those who give with love will ALWAYS receive a rearward from above #trust
  3. Love yourself enough to know that you don’t have to prove yourself, you have to be yourself and that will be your best proof of who you are #genuineness

Be the change that you want to see in others, do not wait for someone to do for YOU what you want, do for them what THEY want first. Remember the domino effect.

NOTE: The Spanish post was a trial to see if I have a Spanish audience who could also benefit from my blog and posts, please if you know anyone share the post and I will find the means and time to create more posts in Spanish or an effective translation tool so everyone can be well edified!

My beloved, my readers, my support, my clients, my motivation, as always with the best interest at heart

—Your coach and Lay Christian counselor, 

Denise Kilby

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coach & Lay Christian Counselor. All rights reserved.


Published by Denise Kilby

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and learning how to help others by expanding my view of life. I studied Criminal Psychology and Christian Crisis Counseling at Liberty University. I am an Advanced Certified Christian Life Coach who does not stay within the four walls when it comes to helping others. As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer. I consider myself a winner, who has focused on living the best that I can every day of my life. My mission is to inspire and instill positive change, encourage and motivate others to become empower. My vision is to help others live their lives to their fullest God given potential. My objective it to share my vision in life with those who are blinded by pain and stuck in a rut but desperate for a change to overcome the monotonous series of lies they've been believing every day . I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. I am passionate about people, and the way the brain works, always looking for ways to help individuals like you see the truth that lives within them. I know there’s more for everyone, and that we are far more than whatever our current situations may be. If you're ready to discover how much more you are, I challenge you to stay in touch. “Don't stop learning-there’s a world that needs your help” - Denise Kilby

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