We all have one.

This is for all the people who say “Say I DON’T have AN EGO”.

Oh my dear, we all do.

Please, do yourself a favor; get to understand your ego and how it has developed.
Don’t guard it overprotect it, defend it or fight against it before getting to know it.

Some Monday freebie:

1 The ID: The id operates on the pleasure principle , me now now no matter the consequences or who’s affected by them “I want it my way 🎶” ( yes I sang that!)

2 The ego; The ego operates according to the reality principle.

The ego engages in secondary process thinking, which is rational, realistic, and orientated towards problem-solving. Often compromising or postponing satisfaction to avoid negative consequences of society— helping balance the id’s crazy impulses. Sadly on occasion self voiding and cancelling for others. #payattention

3 The superego: is more about values and moral. Is less self seeking.

The superego’s function is to control the id’s impulses, especially those which society outlaws, such as sex and aggression. It also has the function of persuading the ego to turn to moralistic goals rather than simply realistic ones and to strive for perfection.

The superego has a deeper inherent goal to help people become better self and is often perceived and taken as if it makes the ego feel guilty and ashamed for it.

Get to know your ego

Let us recognize who we are and where we come from. People use various defense mechanism when they feel attacked simply because they don’t have the knowledge and don’t take the time to listed or read a little.

“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall” Proverbs 16:18

Christian Life Coach

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©️2021 Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC. All rights reserved.

Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others. After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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