Get Up Stronger

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“At times is necessary to touch bottom and be laid flat on the ground to realize how much higher from it we belong” -DK.

That statement above can sound harsh right.

I am not saying live in the clouds and act as though you’re better than everyone around you, but what I am definitely trying to say instead is that the best comes out when we’re in our lowest places.

Suffering can increase your motivation, it is during our hardest moment that we realize that “something’s gotta give” things can’t remain the same, “I must make a change”.

If you’re disconnected—from what you’re going through you can either tell yourself

“I will never make it, I’m not enough, this is always the same, I knew this would fail, why do I even try?, everyone lives better than me, everyone looks better than me…”etc.etc. or you can hit the switch re-connect with the inner beauty that lives within you and tell your beautiful soul;

“I will make it and if I don’t make it now, I will try again, I am more and I am loving myself, this time it will not be the same, I know I will not fail and if it doesn’t work out I am ok with that, I will always try, I will live the life I want, I look as good as God because I am made in His image and likeness”, and so on and so on… learn how to look up right from where you are, use that ground to step on it.

Recondition your brain, revalue who you are. Find the purpose of the pain, think what it has to offer, what would come out of it. Although you may not know the answer now I’m one hundred percent sure that if you practice this every time you feel down, or left down you will learn to cast your eyes on the things that are higher, and find yourself there all along.

Your inner kid is still inside yearning for help and approval and you are the only one who can provide this comfort and reassurance. Because you are an adult now. But you will not realize this until you love yourself fully and accept all the pieces of yourself.

“We come alone to a world filled with millions of souls, we leave this world and we get to take one…our own” -Denise K.

 

For more information and to connect with me keep scrolling and reach out, hold my hand and know that you’re not alone ☺#reachout


©️2017 Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coaching. All rights reserved.

Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to better help others. After studying Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University. I decided to make of Life Coaching my career thus I became certified as an Advanced Christian Life Coach by studying at Light University through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). I obtained my international credentialing through the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for times as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower, encourage and equip others, by instilling a positive change, on individuals. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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