The Glory Comes When You’re Out of Your Comfort Zone

Monday Motivation: The glory comes when you’re out of your comfort zone.

What you believe that is holding you down and keeping you grounded can be in fact what’s holding you back and keeping stagnant.

Fret not.

Yes, neuroscience research teaches us that uncertainty registers in our brain much like an error. It needs to be corrected before we can feel comfortable again, so we’d rather not have that hanging out there if we can avoid it.

Researches suggest that men will rather be wrong, lose in the comfort zone, or live in uncertainty than to accept uncomfortable and uncertain changes.

How to change?:

Competence

You must believe you have the competence for change.

Case

If you understand why the change is happening, you’re less likely to view it as an error and will have a better time adjusting to it.

Happiness

Find your true happiness. Unhappy people fear change while happy people create positive change.

Core

Keep in mind the core of who you are.
Ask yourself, if I don’t change this, what will never change in my life?

Acceptance

Change can makes us feel like we don’t have control and like we’re flailing in the wind as we learn new skills. Learning new skills is necessary for consistency.
Consistency is the key to success.

Anchor

Find your anchor and recall what the pending change won’t change about your world that’s important to you (like your connection with your family, your core values, morals, or your commitment to serve others).

Start Today!

The Lord says:
“Do not fear [anything], for I am with you; Do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, be assured I will help you; I will certainly take hold of you with My righteous right hand [a hand of justice, of power, of victory, of salvation].’”
‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭41:10‬ ‭AMP‬‬

Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others. After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby View all posts by Denise Kilby BCACLC