Don’t Use Your Circumstances as an Excuse to Exploit, Mistreat, Abuse, and Destroy Someone Else’s Life

Everyday we are gifted a new choice!

Three questions that we should ask ourselves and three very important points that we need to have present in our daily lives:

  1.  Look around you and think of a way that you could make someone feel better today, how can you do something good for someone who loves you?
  2. Can you make it about someone else other than yourself ?
  3. Can you stop worrying about you for a moment and think— how can I get rid of me (out of my head) to think about those who love me wholeheartedly and do something right that will bless my soul today?

The point I’m trying to make here is that when we think about those who love us, and how genuine their love towards us is we usually live a selfless life—which most of the times is a beautiful unselfish life. I mean no one likes a selfish fool in this world after all anyways right…oops, sorry not sorry!

Bottom line is that when we give to others, great things come back to us in return perhaps blessings for our soul, peace, joy, tranquility, companionship, & honesty. We live a life without the need to lie, to make up stories because our lifestyles tells our stories for ourselves. Gosh, I could go on…to me sounds simply beautiful delightful to imagine a life that requires no need for speech.

Aren’t we tired of speaking too much already, of screaming and crying for others to hear what we are trying to say—to try to raise awareness, to do do everything we can and still wake up in a sleeping selfish and narcissistic world? Have you thought about those who might be equally screaming and begging for a little bit of your time?

  • There’s always someone waiting, perhaps silently or in other words begging—attention take advantage of the time they are willing to give you and see it as a #gift
  • We are privileged to be able to decide for ourselves what to do with our days and with our lives, who we want to spend it with, what we want to eat, drink and do—where we want to go and so on and so forth.
  • Don’t you think that’s pretty amazing? I absolutely think so!
  • The problem is when we forget that we live in a world that is surrounded by other humans & that we have to take into account & into consideration their feelings, & best interests at heart as well—especially if we have some sort of commitment with them. Unless we are opting for a more #narcissistic #personality, then we can think about ourselves and give account only to God (that’s more serious).

If you are unsure of what you’re doing, or why you’re doing it and you need guidance and help identifying they why of your behaviors I encourage you to seek it!

You are not alone, and you might be destroying those around you without even noticing all while you continue to opaque your soul. Remember that humans are created to change, you’re not meant to live the same way for the rest of your life you can live better and better. The choice is yours the choice is given to you everyday, you can lay down tonight and let it all go and decide tomorrow to reach as much of you as possible, and use it to reach out to someone else—perhaps someone who may be trying to reach out to you.

Take on to a better life!

As always with your best interest at heart,

Denise Kilby

#think  #talktome

Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others. After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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