It is a common mistakes that Christians make, to want to be like other Christian’s to please God. In their confessions and conversations with the father they even attempt to imitate other believer’s ways of praying. They compare their lives with their behaviors, social statuses and positions of others and even with biblical characters.
Jesus doesn’t need another Job! Job’s story was Job’s story!
Your trauma and crisis response can be different than Job’s, that’s okay. Comparing yourself to others can cause spiritual stagnation.
Your process is YOUR process, you’re not Moses, Martha, Ruth, Abraham, Naomi, Sarah, Luke, John, Elijah, Deborah, or Esther—(this to mention some names).
Even more you’re not Judas Iscariot, who betrayed Jesus!
Be an ambassador of Jesus, imitate Jesus, love like Jesus, listen like Jesus, try to speak like Jesus (INCLUDING YOURSELF). Learn about all others as examples, part of history, may they serve as encouragement and not discouragement.
For everyday at the end of the day, you will have to live and be yourself, alone with Jesus through the Holy Spirit of God.
Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others.
After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC).
As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this.
My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools.
My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change.
I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty.
My advise to you, with the best love I have,
“Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby
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Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC Assoc. 