Don’t Doubt Yourself

What we are facing is real but we can achieve more

Something to take on for the weekend 🥰 There’s nothing wrong with feeling frustrated and oppressed from time to time and not knowing what to do. In fact there’s nothing wrong with wanting to take care of your own circumstances at times—that is only revealing your human nature. Who else will handle your situations if not yourself right? (Well God…but😉)

As long as you know who takes care of you and you always come to your senses and surrender in humility understanding that you can’t do it alone you will always gain the wisdom, strength and willingness to keep going.

I don’t know where you find yourself today, but I find myself transitioning. Woohoo 🙌 🥳!!!!

And I think is one of the best times of my life, until… I think 🤔: WHAT 😯 DOES MY HUSBAND (really) THINKS? You know the unsaid words that sometimes you feel like creep up in silence?! Or that we feel like creep up in silence, and May never do…🤯

Don’t self doubt I suggest everyone, if you want to do something go out there and launch, be positive and believe in yourself. Always aware of your circumstances, but never afraid 😟 of the outcomes, look at life as an eternity realm of possibilities and embrace every step of the way.

BTW—and on a side note—I absolutely hope you can see those cute emojis I am trying to integrate to this writings.

If you fail at something BELIEVE ME you will over come it, because in life whatever you fail at you will retake it until you pass it otherwise you’ll be stuck on that chapter forever—and no one wants that!

Go out there with a WIN attitude, but be very careful of yourself and how you see others. Stay humble at all times.

I read on an article this morning that, too often, we try to win high self-regard in cheap ways. And without noticing or even purposely we put others down or make them seem as if they are less by comparing our achievements with theirs, simply because they are the weakest ones around us. We conform to cultural norms, believing what society values is what we value and how society defines success is how we must define success. These cheap tricks are unsustainable and lead to narcissism during good times and depression during hard times.

How you see yourself during the low times is what will define you during the high times.


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Published by Denise Kilby

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and learning how to help others by expanding my view of life. I studied Criminal Psychology and Christian Crisis Counseling at Liberty University. I am an Advanced Certified Christian Life Coach who does not stay within the four walls when it comes to helping others. As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer. I consider myself a winner, who has focused on living the best that I can every day of my life. My mission is to inspire and instill positive change, encourage and motivate others to become empower. My vision is to help others live their lives to their fullest God given potential. My objective it to share my vision in life with those who are blinded by pain and stuck in a rut but desperate for a change to overcome the monotonous series of lies they've been believing every day . I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. I am passionate about people, and the way the brain works, always looking for ways to help individuals like you see the truth that lives within them. I know there’s more for everyone, and that we are far more than whatever our current situations may be. If you're ready to discover how much more you are, I challenge you to stay in touch. “Don't stop learning-there’s a world that needs your help” - Denise Kilby

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