When I First Got Married

When I first got married I believed my commitment was with with husband, I promised to love him, honor him, respect him, care for him, and be there for him until death did us apart.I wanted to make sure that he understood this full well. That he got the point that this oath was madeContinue reading “When I First Got Married”

Accountability

Holding someone accountable should never pain the person trying to help. This should keep things simple for today. Holding someone accountable for their own actions should never be hard on the person trying to help them. Keep it simple.What are you doing to change your current situation?How are you taking care of your mental health?HowContinue reading “Accountability”

Trauma Therapy & Affairs

                                Let’s talk about Trauma Therapy, and Affairs. Press here to listen to this episode from my Podcast But, first I want us to take a look at the definition of affair in general, and in personal/marital relationships. af·fair /əˈfer/ noun 1. an event or sequence of events of a specified kind or that hasContinue reading “Trauma Therapy & Affairs”

2021 Fun Fact

Here you have it my readers this is your Wednesday Wedge! This is a quick Wedge to help bridge some some things and calm some anxiety around the community. After seeing so many memes asking for “2021’s previews before entering to it”, asking to “read its fine prints before agreeing to it” or “asking toContinue reading “2021 Fun Fact”

Healing

Healing~Motivation~Commitment They say that you can’t heal in the same place where you’ve been hurt. But little gets spoken of the reasons why you’re hurt in the first place. Commitment to change the perspectives in regards to the situation you may find yourself in is always necessary for proper healing. At times it will beContinue reading “Healing”

You Have a Unique Identity

You have a unique identity, essence, qualities, gifts, a GREAT calling, talents, and your own beauty. You have no need to change or attempt to change because there’s people actively attempting to coerce you to change who you were created to be. You were created to be something wonderful! If you are loving a lifeContinue reading “You Have a Unique Identity”

Options or Free Will

Can we jump on this Wednesday Hump straight to a few questions to help us reflect on the way we are using/looking/ or perhaps seeing at opportunities? Well that along was one questions, wasn’t it? That was another one. Using our intuitive part of the brain sometimes can be beneficial when it comes to reflectingContinue reading “Options or Free Will”

Let Silence Speak

Silence can be beneficial when used wisely, since too much stimulation can actually end up harming oneself holistically speaking. Taking time to silence our minds from all the external noises and the world to connect with oneself, and the way God created our bodies will allow us to learn how to appreciate it and seeContinue reading “Let Silence Speak”

Marriage Sanity and Sanctity

Marriage is not simply a piece of paper as many are making it out to be to simplify the commitment and justify their behaviors. To avoid getting married or to continue living in sin during their marriages and excuse a lack of willpower to change, and pressing on for the long haul. Marriage is aContinue reading “Marriage Sanity and Sanctity”

Put The Cart Before The Horse

Oh yes, Fall is here we can feel the change in air the crisp cold grass, the leaves leaving the trees, and the trees remaining still reminding us that change is inevitable, and that is perfectly okay. Some leaves will come back but those leaves will never be the same that fell off this season,Continue reading “Put The Cart Before The Horse”