What are you planning?

Are you thinking, “New Year’s resolution” or “New opportunity to start something new”?

To be completely elated we must do something that we love, and to be able to do the things we love one must work on priorities.

Very often individuals fall through the crevices of their own agendas.

Write down all the blessings you can remember from 2019 and plan your 2020’s.

• Think about what you need to do and write it down.

• Work everyday as if it was the last day of the year and the beginning of a new opportunity.
• Give thanks for the things you had, and will have in this New Year.
• Speak what you want to see and open your eyes.
• Remember that the eyes are the window of the soul, how you see things they will be.

Opportunities are not always given, sometimes you need to take them.

When was the last time that you reviewed your agenda to make sure that you wasn’t doing more than what you had planned out, or doing less than you had anticipated?

Perhaps it’s time to make a change in sleep pattern, social affairs commitments, entertainment, habit, hobbies or even career path and daily or long time planning.

If you often wonder why there seems to be something pulling you stronger towards an undesired direction than the one one you are currently trying to walk to—the answer is simple, you’re adjusting to other’s I order to keep going.

THEREFORE, you need to stop fighting with time, as gravity will win and things can end up falling apart. Find the belly button of things and work with who you want doing what you love. Those who are not in the same boat will eventually navigate away.

Remember to make plans but be flexible without letting yourself behind this 2020.

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coach & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Can I talk now?

Nice Saturday!!

Be open minded and live prepared to receive the answers to the questions you ask. Always remember that with the attitude or character you make claims, demand and make certain requirements—towards family, friends, or people close to you, collaborators or others with whom you work. With that same strength, diligent and proficient people will give you clear answers and explain you in detail.

Before making any speculation, asking questions or demanding. Take a self-test so you can go prepared with the necessary tools to receive and organize all the ideas.

If you have doubts and questions, be willing to listen to the answers.

Be receptive and analytical. Use logical reasoning and think further than whats on the surface. What everyone can see doesn’t require to be questioned. And again, things aren’t always as they seem. Therefore, if you ask; you’re wondering you must be questioning something. Why not wait for the answer.

Learn how to let people talk.

Closed minds ask and answer themselves even after obtaining the answer from the direct source.

My though and prayer is that this Saturday (if reading in actual time, if not when you read this) all your affairs are carried out as you wish. And that every question or doubt you have is answered from the direct source, not from mere speculations or gossips. And may God mold your character and allow you to be prepared to listen and be open-minded and give you the ability to understand by giving you insight. Knowing that if we ask we must listen to answers and although they will not always be the ones we want. They will be the ones we need to stop wondering.

With love and care!

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

“Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life. Rescue me from my enemies, Lord, for I hide myself in you. Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground”(Psalm 143:8-10 NIV).

May God’s Spirit lead you to a balanced life, to level grounds where you can make sound decisions based on His will for your life.

“You know what you were created for and where God wants to take you, when you think about such things and you become balanced and stable in life”—Denise K.

There will always be people to try to turn off your fire, but remember that you are ignited from within. Pursue your calling and walk in obedience, never confirming to this world but reminding this world that you live conformed by the Spirit of God who renewed your mind and soul.

Positive thinking without positive action is dead mind-work. Apply your wisdom to your intelligence for a successful journey.

Don’t change your way of thinking to please those who speak louder. Listen quietly to the voice that speaks to your heart when you read in silence.

As always my dear friend, with your best interest at heart! There is hope!!

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

“A truly beautiful woman must practice discernment because this shows that she can make good choices. The verse says that if a woman doesn’t have discernment, then she will make poor choices just like a pig would. Beauty on the outside means nothing if a woman cannot discern whether she’s dressing appropriately or not. A truly beautiful woman fears the Lord and that is what makes Christian women attractive”. —Unknown

There is not much to add to this. A relationship with God that is built in constant communion with Him will always weight more than the latest fab.

“For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps,” (1Peter2:21).

We are not called to please the world, to follow the latest fab (even if times has change—He’s still the same God) but we are called to show the world that although we travel through it we are heirs of heaven.

“If you believe you can overcome”

“You are from God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world” (1 John 4:4).

As His children we are “an inheritance that can never, perish, soil or fade”. We are not to be contaminated by this world but to bring clarity to those who walk in its darkness. Dare to make the difference.

“When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life”

(John 8:12 NIV).

If like Jesus you know where you came from and where you are going, you make sure to make a difference.

As always, with your best interest at heart!

—Denise Kilby

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coach. All rights reserved.

As humans we posses the ability to control our thoughts, something that not a lot of people believe, are aware of, or are yet to discover. Whenever we face a stressful situation in life we are capable of recovering from it very quickly… (yes quickly). Is all about the thoughts that we use and put in our minds right after the event to replace mind-blurring, negative thoughts.

Keep in mind this is different than a traumatic event (i.e. a mother who loses her child, child abuse, or domestic violence).

We are talking about emotions how they affect our mood and how we have the capability to regain control of them!

The difference in the impact that bad situations have in our lives 🆚 the memory of it being erased is that we are more conscious (humanly aware) on how that particular situation made us feel… thus we don’t realize when we have freed ourselves from that feeling, as the day progresses. This is done unconsciously, by replacing negative thoughts with positive ones.

To overcome a bad situation we must acknowledge it, deal with it and move on. This doesn’t necessarily mean accepting the situation even when is necessary to accept that we are indeed facing an emotional situation.

“No one can postpone emotions but everyone can control their thoughts before they become permanent feelings” —Denise K.

A last night argument, misunderstanding, or disagreement cannot be the reason you’re walking around grouchy, or grumpy with everyone today. Take those thoughts captive—remember (2 Corinthians 10:5)? Put it to practice!

. **Always make sure that your feelings are being validated at least by yourself**

Being aware of our emotional state will allow us to understand our feelings which is the first step to recovery from past hurt or emotional imbalance. And the beginning to a great journey of self-care.

Advice:

1. Control your impulsivity become aware of your actions.
2. Practice self-patient and pray to become patient—always self aware, but yet sensitive to others.
3. Don’t shy out to try new things; shyness will only place you in a low energy level, and low sensitivity to the world because you’re too focus on how the world can make you feel. Don’t deprive-yourself.
4. Be focused to attention, don’t become anxious about things that are yet to come. Being anxious will only delay your recovery from past situation.

If you are reading in actual time have a Happy Friday, become what you believe and recover, you are resilience.

You have the ability and deserves to overcome mental health impulsivity, lack of patient, anxiety, physical health conditions and any other thing that is controlling your mind.

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Many may hang on to your mantle but they can never perform the mission the same way as you.

~ It was you the one with the vision~

It may look as if they are stealing your project at work or demoting  you from your dream job because  John or Pamela (to make some names up) may have done better than you? And you’re probably thinking … hmmm they got there because of me! Is this even anywhere fair in life?

It may seem as if it’s not. Life is not fair. I tell you that people can be cruel.

While some some sleep there are others who pray. Who are woken up even when they don’t make plans to wake up, and pray to talk to God and are given visions and plans for what they are passionate about, while others are perfectly fine sleeping and freshly saying “I don’t know how you can do it”.

It may seem like you work hard for someone else to steal the mission right from beneath your finger tips when is almost finished, because you got done explaining to them how you created it. I understand, believe me, when I tell you I’ve been there. The problem can be that you are not the one creating it, you are only the one with the vision to develop what has already been created.

Don’t feel like you said too much, this was necessary says the Lord, “it was part of the plan for you to see where you stand in your intimacy with Him and how far ahead you are compare to others. This is for you to see how much further you will go and why you are in the position you’re in, you were created for bigger things.”

I am here to tell you, to REST assure (be at peace) because they will never be able to fulfill the mission like you would, because it was you who God gave the revelation and illumination to. Unless it is work done in agreement and collaboration it will show as work done out of desperation just to mark something done in a calendar while you had it written down from months ago.

I am here to give you HOPE! To remind you that there’s more where that came from you’re more and there’s more within you. Don’t worry about what any human may see, God knows what you’re working on behind close doors, keep your head held high and preparing tables for them if necessary, keep your hard work going and let His peace overflow in such a way that surpasses all understanding.

Have a wonderful day and don’t let anything interrupt your Tuesday. Remember to do first what brings your agenda to a check mark done ✅

God’s peace will overflow in your inner circle when you take time to connect with Him. Follow your dreams and be illuminated by The Holy Spirit through the revelation that comes from reading the word of God.

As always!

With your best interest at heart ♥️

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.