Fix Your Eyes on Greatness

“Let’s look at our lives how no one else ever will” – DK.

A positive mind is much easier to persuade…

• Let’s be positive and focus on the great things (we DO have) rather than on the not so great (the ones we don’t see).

• I’m a firm believer that is of utmost importance to look back from time to time.

• Take a glance look back at life

•If you made it this far you will advance much more.

• Be grateful and count your blessing

• Don’t ever be afraid to do something for yourself.

•Be caring, learn from others, what to and what not to do.

• Be unique, conquer, fight, don’t give up, share goodness, good vibes, be positive, love others, be kind, be genuine, but most importantly #BeYou

“In every heart is a hidden gem waiting to come out and make an impact in someone else’s life” Denise Kilby

Stay tune for this and more, contact me for some private advice and guidance!

Stay blessed and bless others.


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coach. All rights reserved.

Seek Happiness

“Happiness doesn’t come from big pieces of great success, but from small advantages hammered out day by day.” – Jim Rohn

I have great plans for my life, for the person I want to become, and for the world I want to contribute to and give back to. I know that if I stay still when life circumstances puts a pause on my life/day, that hiatus can become a permanent or very long stop so I work with what I can and do as much as I can given the set of environmental situations.

Today may not await, life will continue to happen, and I must live to be part of it. In order for me to fulfill my God given destiny I must strive for success.

Every morning whether I am having a bad flare (for those who don’t know I Fight Fibromyalgia on a daily basis) or not I say to myself “today will be a great day” before I begin to complain I commence to give thanks.

We have received far more than what we have given in this life; don’t forget to take advantage of the given opportunities instead of complaining for the given situations.

I read spiritual, educational, motivational and inspirational content to help me stay focus on my goals and redirect myself if I may have lost track. I meditate on what I have and ask for guidance, I write to inspire, motivate, clear my mind, challenge myself and never forget.

So when life tries to stop me in one area of my life I use it as a stepping stone to advance in others and get to my tomorrow.

I advice you to study, educate yourself clear your mind, reconnect, take advantage of being alive and the situations the bad things happening are only circunstancial. Believe in new opportunities, getup and fight for what you want, run the good raise of life and live out your dreams with love by trying a little bit more everyday.

“If you need help remembering who you are, think about how far you’ve come” – Denise K.

Keep scrolling and contact me for more information on how to seek your true happiness.

 


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Can you hear your teenager’s (silent) cry?

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“A baby will grow to be an adult one day but that baby will never stop being your child” DK.

Most adolescents feel trapped living a life that doesn’t belong to them but again they don’t know how to escape from that. Teenagers go with the crowd only to realize later on in their adult lives that they lived a life that wasn’t for them, leaving them with regrets and a sour taste of the most glorious and potentially most beautiful years of their lives. All teenagers experience a stage called Pathological Narcissism, and while they may appear to be “okay” and act like they have it all under control portraying a selfish, self-centered egocentric image, the reality is that a lot of teens are nowadays crying inside. Adolescents are fragile individuals, who might appear as though they’re pushing you away in their silent attempts to draw you closer, all  your child want is for you to be closer and understand.

Giving space doesn’t necessarily mean “go away”.

-Sometimes a hug can help shape their lives-

  1. Have you noticed your adolescent’s cry for help?
  2. Do you know how to identify it?
  3. Do you need help identifying your own child’s cry?
  4. When was the last time you hugged your teen?
  5. Do you still have dinner together (at home)?

If any of the above seem to hit close to home, reach out to me:

• Learn how to help without being noticed

• Obtain information to understand their silent cry

• Learn about alternatives, to be away from your teen but having your child around adults most of the time.

• Learn your children’s signs of depression, anxiety and eating disorder

If you’re a teen:

  1. Do you feel trap as if no-one understands?
  2. Tired of the same vague therapy, and of being treated like a kid?
  3. Do you want to connect with your parents again?

•Learn how to get closer to your parents

• Understand that they just want to help

• Parents distance because they think that’s what you want – Learn how to let them know they’re wrong without making them distance even grater

• Obtain coping skills & learn about alternatives; and how to help a friend who may be experiencing the same.

Adolescents under 18 need parents permission to connect for coaching but can connect. Feel free to follow read and revisit the page anytime.

 

“We are created to help, to live and to help keep others alive…are you living?” -Denise Kilby

Keep scrolling, #letsconnect

 

 


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Get Up Stronger

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“At times is necessary to touch bottom and be laid flat on the ground to realize how much higher from it we belong” -DK.

That statement above can sound harsh right.

I am not saying live in the clouds and act as though you’re better than everyone around you, but what I am definitely trying to say instead is that the best comes out when we’re in our lowest places.

Suffering can increase your motivation, it is during our hardest moment that we realize that “something’s gotta give” things can’t remain the same, “I must make a change”.

If you’re disconnected—from what you’re going through you can either tell yourself

“I will never make it, I’m not enough, this is always the same, I knew this would fail, why do I even try?, everyone lives better than me, everyone looks better than me…”etc.etc. or you can hit the switch re-connect with the inner beauty that lives within you and tell your beautiful soul;

“I will make it and if I don’t make it now, I will try again, I am more and I am loving myself, this time it will not be the same, I know I will not fail and if it doesn’t work out I am ok with that, I will always try, I will live the life I want, I look as good as God because I am made in His image and likeness”, and so on and so on… learn how to look up right from where you are, use that ground to step on it.

Recondition your brain, revalue who you are. Find the purpose of the pain, think what it has to offer, what would come out of it. Although you may not know the answer now I’m one hundred percent sure that if you practice this every time you feel down, or left down you will learn to cast your eyes on the things that are higher, and find yourself there all along.

Your inner kid is still inside yearning for help and approval and you are the only one who can provide this comfort and reassurance. Because you are an adult now. But you will not realize this until you love yourself fully and accept all the pieces of yourself.

“We come alone to a world filled with millions of souls, we leave this world and we get to take one…our own” -Denise K.

 

For more information and to connect with me keep scrolling and reach out, hold my hand and know that you’re not alone ☺#reachout


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Bring Out the Calm You

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Do you often feel unable to control your thoughts and worries, always thinking about your job, your relationships, your health, or simply everything and everyone all at once?

We will always worry about the things that matter the most to us, after all. It is an understandable part of our human nature to care for those we love, and make sure that the things we value are going just well.

Now, this doesn’t mean that you have to become self-sabotage. Have you been more anxious than ever lately (or does it seem like it at least)? Are you questioning your image, your weight, unable to control small situations, feeling like your getting older, scared of not aging successfully, or experiencing overall unhappiness?

If you answered “yes” to any of those questions you’re not alone, I have been there, they (others) have been there, you’re there; we’ve all been there! Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness affecting over 40 million  Americans today (imaging the rest of the world), and including a long list of hard to identify symptoms.

But I want you to please, know that there’s more within you, that you are more than what you think, that things are not as bad as they seem, and again, you are not alone.

Believe it or not there are ways to turn off your anxiety without medication and with self meditation, reconnecting with the inner you who (is anxious) wants to come out.

Fixating on your past, being fearful of your future and not being connected with yourself in the present moment will take a toll on your mental, emotional and physical health and overall well-being.

I’m not saying let’s disconnect!

Now is the time to learn some meditation techniques, lets activate those endorphins in your brain. Let me teach you how to make them act as sedatives to calm that anxiety and get re-rooted to your ground.

It’s time to shut off your anxiety and turn on your life!

“You can’t say that you’re living if you’re not enjoying your life” —Denise Kilby

Contact me for more info, tell me how I can help there’s hope!

Thanks for trusting me!


©️Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coach. All rights reserved.

Take risks that don’t put your future at risk

Don’t be scared of taking risks and doing what you want. Thinking about it will not get you anywhere, in this life you reap what you have sown. Are you sowing?

A have a few more questions:

1. Are you fighting for what you want or what you want is fighting you? You know what you want, why not go get it instead of losing sleep over it.

2. Are you doing anything today that will add or subtract to your future? Invest in your future, sometimes not investing is spending (even time).

3. Are your dreams scaring you and chasing you instead of you chasing them, are you fleeing from them? Then those are the dreams that you need to turn around and go after. That’s your calling, God will take care of the rest, but you have to take the first step.

4. Are you tired of belonging to the government, the society, your boss, “what people may think”? Be the government, contribute to society and be your own boss, give them something to talk about.

5. Is your view too small or too broad , can you visualize yourself 3 years from now?

If you’re view is too small is because you need to believe in yourself (you’re more), if your view seems to big is because you lack perspective, and if you can’t see the vision is because you’re stuck looking back and further action is required.

•do something amazing •right there •right now •take action •move forward •go for it •you can do it •dream •believe •achieve •don’t quit •make history •women •men •youth •children •you’re capable •trust God •have-faith •lifecoach

Contact me for more, let’s connect!

-Denise K.


©️Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coach. All rights reserved.

Fibromyalgia in Your Brain

The wealth of experimental evidence showing that FM patients are hypersensitive to painful stimuli, as well as unpleasant stimuli from other sensory modalities, in conjunction with functional brain imaging data showing increased stimulus-evoked activation throughout nociceptive pathways, shows that the defining symptom of FM—increased pain—is in fact real and not just a response bias of the patients. The finding that perception is increased in multiple modalities speaks against the hypothesis that FM pain is due to an upregulation of peripheral nociceptive processes. Further, psychophysical evidence that descending modulatory systems are altered in FM patients supports the opposing idea that FM symptoms are at least in part caused by alterations in CNS processing of the pain signal, including a dysregulation of pain modulatory systems. Nevertheless, the apparent dysregulation within these systems could be caused and/or perpetuated by a tonic activation related to the presence of ongoing widespread pain, so that the systems are saturated and cannot regulate further in response to external stimuli.

To read more about this follow the link, or if you have any questions or are wondering how this may affect your emotional state of mind contact me.

https://www.hindawi.com/journals/prt/2012/585419/


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Christian Life Coach. All rights reserved.

You’re more than the giant you’re facing!

Life can be challenging and the obstacles may seem higher than they truly are, the waters seem to rise and it seems to be no way out, at times…. Do you feel like your current situation is more than you can handle?

If so, let me remind you, there’s always something or someone to remind us that, “we are more”. Allow me to remind you! Some answers to your many questions can be within yourself, if you need help reaching them – let’s connect -, some others may be within your finger tips type away, you just have to reach to God—He’s already there, contact someone, or me I’m already here.

In order for some things to fall into place, other things need to move out of place…stay connected, find the rhythm within your heartbeat -Dk

There’s an old saying that goes “Easier said than done”, that is still true to this day, but I’m a firm believer that it gets easier once we start doing… to me is more like “Easier when you start getting things done” -Dk

Life gets lighter when you have some help. Stay connected to what is to come, don’t lose hope, reach out, and let me show you that you’re more than the giant you’re facing!

Stay Blessed,

  Denise Kilby

 


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