Category: Trauma

• What Motivates You is Your Purpose in Life

  “I’m not saying I was born to suffer and go through hardships for the rest of my life, what I’m saying here is that I was meant for endurance and survival—to overcome and as a result help others do the same” Good Morning My Lovely Overcomer’s 😃 A little cloudy over my way but let’s […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  07/16/2020

  Addiction, Anxiety, Bible Stories, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pandemic, Parenting, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Self Care, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma

  Career, Christian Life, Family, Life Decisions, Love, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Responsibilities, Spiritually, Therapeutics, Work

• Allow Your Suffering to Transform You

  What ja your motivation today? My past sufferings—what I’ve lived, endured, and overcame— thanks to the grace of God have allowed me to be able to help others today. What I continue to live, suffer, walk through, endure, and overcome in a daily basis is my motivation and what gives me courage to continue to […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  07/15/2020

  Addiction, Anxiety, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Parenting, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Family, Life Decisions, Love, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Responsibilities, Spiritually, Therapeutics, True Love, Work

• Today is a Great Day for Change

  Glennon Doyle came to a realization during a very difficult breakup in her marriage that “It’s not right to expect our every need to be met by one person” and I honestly couldn’t agree with her anymore. But can we apply that to our everyday life? How about if we see every single person inside […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  07/14/2020

  Año Nuevo, Addiction, Anxiety, Bible Stories, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, New Year, Pandemic, Parenting, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Revelatios, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Family, Friendships, Labor Pain, Life Decisions, Love, marriage relationships responsibility sex intimacy bond commitment, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pastoral Life, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Responsibilities, Single Life, Spiritually, starmoon, Therapeutics, True Love, Work

• Don’t be One of Them

  How Much do You Love Yourself? There’s is people who do not know what love is and they walk around hurting others… unloving what is supposed to be love and mistreating what is supposed to be treated with respect, and cared for. DON’T BE ONE OF THEM!! Quick reflection: Are you aware that you must […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  07/13/2020

  Addiction, Anxiety, Bible Stories, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, New Year, Parenting, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Revelatios, Self Care, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Family, Friendships, Labor Pain, Life Decisions, Love, marriage relationships responsibility sex intimacy bond commitment, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pastoral Life, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Responsibilities, Single Life, Spiritually, starmoon, Therapeutics, True Love, Work

• Changing my Perspective

  Happy Happy Saturday EVERYONE! First and foremost let’s make something very clear. The way people see you, and see life, including theirs speaks about their perception. Their perception about YOU speaks about THEIR level of discernment not yours. YOURS will SHAPE ( #however ) how you live YOUR live. If we let the way they […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  07/11/2020

  Addiction, Anxiety, Bible Stories, Christian Coaching, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, New Year, Pandemic, Parenting, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Revelatios, Self Care, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Family, Friendships, Labor Pain, Life Decisions, Love, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pastoral Life, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Responsibilities, Single Life, Spiritually, Therapeutics, True Love, Work

• Don’t Let Tomorrow Give You Anxiety

  The Bible says in Matthew 6:34 (NIV), “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Often times (more than we’d like to admit) we find ourselves worrying about tomorrow, about what it will (or might) bring, and even about how we are going […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  01/26/2018

  Anxiety, Christian Coaching, Daily Encouragement, HARDSHIPS, Hope, Positivity, Process, Self Care, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Beginning, Career, Love, Mental Health Life Coaching, Responsibilities, True Love, Work

• Things Look Better When We View Them With Heart

  

  Are you living today?! Whatever your definition of living may be make sure that you’re alive in spirit to know what it feels like! -DK Friendly advice:  Place your heart on everything you see, do and want: don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and or let down by others,  people will come and go but […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  01/08/2018

  Daily Encouragement, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Mental Health Life Coaching, New Year, Pandemic, Parenting, Positivity, Relationships, Self Care, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Life Decisions, Love, Mental Health, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Work

• Get Up Stronger

  

  How are you feeling today? “Pain and suffering can make us the biggest victim or the greatest victor” -DK. Not many people are able to make a relation between pain, suffering, happiness and enjoyment. Trauma can definitely help you be extremely resilient. I don’t expect everyone to know or understand this at first hand but […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  12/28/2017

  Addiction, Anxiety, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pandemic, Parenting, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Revelatios, Self Care, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Beginning, Career, Family, Friendships, Life Decisions, Love, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Psychology, Relationships, Single Life, Spiritually, Therapeutics, Work

• Small Changes Lead to Big Accomplishment!

  It may take some of us longer than others to adapt to new changes and to see the “why” of things, but believe me when they say “everything happens for a reason” Believe that everything happens for a reason, there’s a purpose for everything and everyone that crosses your path. •Approaching changes with confidence of […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  12/24/2017

  Anxiety, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Parenting, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Revelations, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Career, Family, Friendships, Love, Mental Health, Psychology, Work

• Silence the Noise that Comes With the Situation

  

  “Being aware of our current situation will make us less vulnerable of the noises that come with it” – DK. You don’t need to hide. Face the situation head-on! When we are in the middle of the storm the best thing we can do is focus on how to remain standing. Yes, some people might […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  12/18/2017

  Anxiety, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, HARDSHIPS, Parenting, Process, PTSD, Revelations, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Uncategorized

  Beginning, Family, Love, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Psychology, Relationships, Responsibilities, Single Life, Spiritually, True Love, Work