Category: Positivity

• Biology of Love Desire & Attraction

  Today’s Wednesday Wedge is on Relationships, Discernment and Communication: to bridge the gap let us wedge across the BIOLOGY OF LOVE DESIRE & ATTRACTION. What happens in the brain when you close proximity with someone you’re physically attracted to? Something begins to happen in your brain as you meet someone who you are attracted to. […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  12/08/2021

  Addiction, Blended Families, Boundaries, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Marriage, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Positivity, Process, Relationships, Revelations, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma, Wednesday Wedge

  Intimacy, Love, Parejas, Pastoral Life, Psychotherapy, Reduce Stress, Relationships, Spirituality, True Love

• Ego

  We all have one. This is for all the people who say “Say I DON’T have AN EGO”. Oh my dear, we all do. Please, do yourself a favor; get to understand your ego and how it has developed.Don’t guard it overprotect it, defend it or fight against it before getting to know it. Some […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  06/07/2021

  Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Daily Encouragement, Hope, Mental Health Life Coaching, Positivity, Process, Self Care, Uncategorized

  Psychology, Spiritually

• What Colors Are You Seeing

  As you go moving forward to new possibilities—moving past the pain, drama and trauma, from your childhood, past relationships, this past year even, and closing out the doors from the past. Life will begin to present you with different colors to choose from—these I will call new pathways. It’s up to you whether you want […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  05/29/2021

  Addiction, Anxiety, Blended Families, Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Work Decisions, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pandemic, Positivity, Process, Revelations, Self Care

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Family, Life Decisions, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Therapeutics, True Love

• Start with some positive affirmations

  It’s Monday to Sow. How to sow? Think that today will be different. Be thankful, seek the good in others, trust God’s ways, have Hope, go out of your way to help someone, find your inner strength. Seek today’s blessings: that is the ability to change. If you’re aiming to have a great week. Believe […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  04/26/2021

  Bible Stories, Daily Encouragement, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Mental Health Life Coaching, Positivity, Self Care, Self Care, Spirituality

  Beginning, Career, Christian Life, Family, Life Decisions, Mental Health, New Hope, Relationships, Spirituality, Spiritually

• We can do increasingly more than we think!

  In life we will honestly know what we are made of when we are going through the fire. It is when we are being processed that the best of us gets a chance to come out and shine, to stand out and get the shape that it needs at that given time in that particular […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  04/10/2021

  Addiction, Bible Stories, Blended Families, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, Parenting, Positivity, Process, Revelatios, Self Care, Spirituality, Trauma

• A Personal Blog

  “Why I am I the closes to you when I’m going through the toughest days, I want to be that close, every single day.” During my conversational prayer with the Lord this morning I decided that I would be honest with myself; because I felt like I’ve been living rather very busy life lately. If […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  03/28/2021

  Anxiety, Bible Stories, Blended Families, Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Life Work Decisions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pandemic, Parenting, Positivity, Process, Promises, Relationships, Revelations, Self Care, Spirituality, Step-parent, Trauma

• Is it Morally Correct to Break a Promise?

  

  How many time has someone promised you something only to leave you with a bitter taste wishing that promises didn’t exist? When is it okay to break a promise? Is it ever okay to break a promise? Growing up i learned to dislike promises, and in my early adult years I used to always say, […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  03/26/2021

  Anxiety, Bible Stories, Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Positivity, Process, Promises, Self Care, Self Care

• Conscious Awareness

  Live Consciously Aware of Your Choices Thank you for connecting, today I want us to talk about being consciously aware of the choices we make. Don’t let your feelings take you by surprise. I’ll begin saying this; Love is a Choice: Love is a choice that we must make daily, and forgiveness carries it right […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  02/23/2021

  Addiction, Anxiety, Bible Stories, Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Positivity, Relationships, Self Care, Spirituality, Suicide, Trauma

• Prayer Works

  Wednesday Wisdom: We pray because we need to hear from Him, not because is the other way around [He’s Always Listening-Psalm 66:19]. #pray We pray to grow closer to our creator and imitate Jesus’ relationship with the Father [in prayer and supplication-Hebrews 5:7]. We Pray… Dear Lord, thank you for your never ending love, healing, […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  02/10/2021

  Addiction, Anxiety, Bible Stories, Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Marriage, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pandemic, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Self Care, Spirituality, Suicide, Trauma

  Behaviors, Faster healing, Healthier behaviors, Mental Health Life Coaching, New Hope, Pastoral Life, Reduce Stress, Spirituality, True Love

• Love

  Love cares, respects, protects, builds, doesn’t harm, prepares and grows everyday! Don’t let “love” make you lose control of yourself. Don’t blame love for unhealthy behavior that lead to violence and lack of tolerance. You simply DO NOT destroy, traumatize, terrorize or abuse in the name of love to enforce (impose) your opinions or power […]

  Denise Kilby BCACLC

  01/07/2021

  Addiction, Anxeity, Bible Stories, Boundaries, Christian Coaching, Couples, Crisis, Daily Encouragement, Depression, Domestic Violence, Forgiveness, HARDSHIPS, Healing, Hope, Life Desicions, Mental Health, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Life Coaching, Pandemic, Positivity, Process, PTSD, Relationships, Self Care, Spirituality, Suicide, Trauma

  Behaviors, Christian Life, Christian Love, Couples, Family, Faster healing, Life Decisions, Love, Marriage Coaching, Mental Health, Mental Health Life Coaching, New Hope, Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Responsibilities, Spiritually, Therapeutics, True Love, Work