Uplift Yourself and Cheer Others

There’s always that one person watching on the background to try and knock you – to try and bad mouth you – to try and invite the devil into your life and your family; but GUESS WHAT? God will always place a circle around those who serve Him! Therefore… let the haters watch and learn or simply hate!

Love #ADVICE:

Celebrate who you are to the point that WHO others are and what they accomplish in life makes you want to celebrate them not want to find FLAW on what they do!

It doesn’t matter how bad they have tried to bad mouth you God will always have a hidden blessing for you that will exalt your greatest attributes without the need for you to say a word.

Don’t contaminate your spirit—at the end of the day you will be the only one unhappy.

Live, love, give, do, and let everyone else do the same. If you feel unhappy with what you have accomplished in life find a coach or a mentor who can help and guide you. If you think the problem is rooted deeper within find a counselor a spiritual counselor who can help you pray and guide you in the right direction.

Don’t lose hope!

As always with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby #talktome #dontbeafraid #findsomeone

You Are More In Him

Quick Sunday Post With Love

Quick post before heading to church thinking of everyone who may need a word of encouragement! I can’t live knowing that I have a calling and I’m not answering to it, this is my calling to do the will of God—this is why I do what I do. Christian Counseling, Life Coach, Encourage, Uplift, Challenge & Motivate.

I hope you enjoy it, please ignore the typos I will correct them later this is with love from my cell phone and is typed quickly as it comes to my heart straight from God—to my Instagram and then to my blog site. Here of course I elaborate it a little bit more as I can.

Hurry and answer to His calling! Use the gift that was place in your hands and don’t fear! –

God’s glory is real and His power and presence is with those who seek Him. He is bigger than your physical pain, than your emotional pain, than your mental disability, than your broken heart, than your marital status, than your financial situation, even MORE and greater than your financial WEALTH because He is the owner of the silver and gold [The silver is mine and the gold is mine,’ declares the LORD Almighty(Haggai 2:8)].

THEREFORE You Are More In Him —who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13) You Are More than you physical pain, than the diagnostic that the doctor gave you, than what your friends told you they saw in you, than what the bank account is reflecting whether big or small, than what your status told you today, than what your followers told you, than what your manager is telling, even more than what your booking agent is telling!!

YOU ARE MORE THAN ANY PRESENT SITUATION that you have have in your life right now WHETHER good or bad!

Don’t let anything derail you from who you really are, God has been pursuing you for a long time—maybe you should take a look back at your life… yeah… it’s been a few times that He’s saved your skin and also showed you mercy in your ministry and your calling (speaking to different people here). But again life gets all the credit——He is the creator of life.

He cares for you, all the things you do & go through in life are meant to shape your character, are the process that will determine who you really are. Don’t let this world fool you. You’re not of this world.

And if your think you’re saved, don’t be one of the modern pharisees—making their own rules, all about them, little about God, all about promoting themselves and hiding the giver of everything that they have, making Him known only on Sundays. #godisgod #always .

#beadoer #consumingfire #burndeep #counseling #calling #preach #sunday #wordofgod #youaremore #godisgood #mentalhealth #physicalhealth #invisibleillnessawareness #fibromyalgia #lupus #cf #mentaldisorders

I love you all!! Thank you so much for reading and staying connected with me, please keep sharing and encouraging others to read and stay conectes. This messages and information is carefully prayed about and studied with the intention to help each and everyone who needs it. (Of course you can also read for entertainment ‘wink wink’)

As always, with the best interest at heart and mind!

Your coach, counselor, friend, sister, and blogger —Denise Kilby #letstalk

Be Careful What You Wish For or Discernment For Our Prayers?

“Perhaps we’re not being mistreated nor ignored by people in life—perhaps this is God LOUD and clear answering our prayers and detaching us from that tree that bears bad fruit” when we say “Lord deliver us from evil”-(Matt6:13)” For a bad tree cannot bear good fruit”-(Matt:7-18) Unless that tree is replanted in good soil (gets to knows God…)

We all have prayed for the wrong thing and we all have insisted enough to the point where God says, give it a shot and let me know how it goes”—Denise K

Sometimes the mistake is made on that initial prayer, they say “be careful what you wish” for I say “discernment for our prayers” from the beginning we have to ask God for discernment to know what comes from Him and learn to LISTEN to Him. There are consequences when we take up and do our own will even after we know that He is telling us something else. A lot of time people don’t know which direction to take in life and that is understandable we are humans. But we need to learn how to ask and seek for guidance.

Not only our spiritual life is at risk here but our MENTAL HEALTH. How much we suffer when don’t know the root of our problems…ugh; just the thought adds weight to my shoulders.

We are not God to help everyone!

We have to remember that “HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE” now, this is not a free pass from jail-nor a free admission to hurting our hearts and letting people eat away our soul- but this should teach us when its time to stay & when we have been set free!

Please listen, set boundaries:

Physically help those who want that physical help, this doesn’t mean pick them up and take them somewhere, what this mean is do things that could actually imply growth if the person is willing (i.e., #psychotherapy #guidance #coaching #grouptherapy etc.

For those who don’t want that, pray and learn that it’s time to move on! Don’t let their manipulations take your peace away and eat your heart out of bitterness.

Your mind, your heart and spirit ARE connected thus you need peace, health and freedom to save your soul. A bitter heart will eat away all of the above.

#Peace #love #intuitiveliving #coaching


When people are willing to change they will take steps that will leave a trance called consistency for those who come behind them to follow”—Denise K

I hope this was encouraging!

As always making a little bit of time to give by grace what by grace I have received.

“Don’t be afraid to learn from your experiences and let your voice inspire growth in someone else’s life, speak freedoms” —Denise K

With the best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby

#lestsconnect

Please Know That You Are Not Alone

In moments of despair, desolation, and spiritual brokenness, it can be very hard to see God’s hand working through your problems and we can begin to question a lot of things.

The normal begins to happen and raising thoughts begin to take place in our head:

  1.  Is there even a God? Sounds harsh, but its normal so don’t feel bad.
  2.  Can God even hear me, hello, are you there? Yes, you’re not the only one who feels like you don’t cry loud enough.
  3.  Am I Holy enough to be listened to by a Supernatural God, am I worthy? You begin to question and watch everything you do, you start watching your steps and at the time try to figure out if these is all an illusion. It is a reality—and that is okay.
  4. There’s wicked people down the street with more “blessings” than me “or at least it appears to be”. The struggle is real but so is God and you are not alone, He can hear, He loves you just how you are and He will not allow you to go through what you’re going through if He didn’t have great plans for you.
  5. Why do I have to go through this? Because God has great plans for you, because you are going to do great things in life and you need to go through this process to help others overcome when they are going through theirs.
  6. How much longer will this last? As long as God sees fits, you might just need to show that you have endurance, if you need help and guidance don’t be afraid to seek it. This will last until God is glorified through you, He loves you and this will not kill you, this will make you stronger.

I am here to tell you that “I’ve been there“, and like I always say—“done that and revisit from time to time—wouldn’t be human if didn’t!”

The key is on learning “how to pull out of it on time” without letting it eat the hope and faith out of our heart ♥️! – We have to treat the harvest from when it is STILL a seed, so it can germinate into what we want it to be, make sure to plant it in the right soil, so it get grow the fruits that we want —to then obtain more seeds and eventually reap a harvest of whatever kind we want!

-I hope you’re following me because I am talking about your mental, spiritual and emotional health here-

(If unsure how to this EMAIL ME below where is says “contact”, contact me so I can help and guide you, ask me any questions you may have.

Even Better look what Matthew 6:26 says > Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

You are nor alone, you are blessed far more than what you can imagine. There is a person in this world who is thinking of you right now and is going out of their way for you. Think outside your head, who could that person might be? And there is another being who loves you so much to use that person to be a blessing to your life, yes, God.

I am blessed to be a blessing to you all, honored to be able to be a life coach to be able to preach the gospel of salvation but most importantly to be able to reach out to be believers and not believers and offer counseling with equal respect regardless their belief system.


I want to encourage you to keep pursuing your dreams and your calling in life, to remind you that life is better when we help others whether through here or in person, and exhort you to seek help when you need it.

As always my beloved with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby #youaremore

Do Not Mentally Cripple Yourself

You have all the power to do whatever you want if life!

Quick Instagram like post my beloved clients, readers, bloggers and followers!

I hope this is uplifting and a quick reminders that you are more than conquerors.

The day that you stop dreaming or sit to expect anything from anyone else is the day that you write your own mental death sentence

  • Dream and DARE to make it real, fight for what you want
  • Don’t mentally cripple yourself waiting for anyone else to do anything for you
  • If you don’t know how to do it or need help taking the first step ASK FOR HELP
  • DO NOT be afraid to ask for help to better yourself- to set up goals – or simply to write them down
  • You are wonderfully and fearfully made (Psalm 139:14) therefore you can do anything you set your mind and heart to if it pleases God you are #able #capable #equipped and #blessed
  • Don’t let anyone tell you different whether directly or indirectly
  • Live the life that belongs to you not the life you wish — meaning of wish 🤢➡️ “want something that cannot or probably will not happen.”

Let’s stop wishing things and start living shall we!

“Blessed are you who hunger now, for you shall be satisfied. Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh” (Luke 6:21)

Enjoy the hashtags I will purposely leave them there, because I copied and pasted this from my Instagram page. Pleas feel free to connect with me there (I hate to say follow) @you.are.more_

#blessed #sunday #sundayfunday #sundayblessings #memorialdayweekend #encouragement #preach #uplifting #help #love #life #lifecoach #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #psychology #behavioralhealth #behavioralscience

Remember that you are loved!!!! It is 5:16 am and I here thinking of you!!!

As always with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby

We Can’t Continue to Meet People and Expect Them to Change

What a bad nature we have that we meet people first, establish a relationship then realize…ehh, I don’t really like this and that, do you think you can change it?

Is it really us not realizing this or is it the people we meet not showing their true colors till we’re all the way in with our hearts melted like syrup over chocolate chip pancakes?

Whatever the scenario may be, wouldn’t life be much easier if we walked away as soon as we saw the first red flag when met someone new in our lives? Whether a co-worker, new friend or lover. That we said “oh no” to the first set of behaviors that we felt we couldn’t deal with in our lives or that we simply didn’t like (this could have pros and cons)—that we said (to self) “okay dear this can’t be added to the list of your friends, this can’t be your next mate, this person can’t be in your life” and moved on.

Whether we were 3 weeks into the relationship or 3 months, yeah that’s sounds easy… yeah it could be easy in fact if we put someone higher first. If we asked God for discernment as waited for Him to answer and actually listened to Him for once.

I’m sure we’ve all heard of the “if you don’t like something change it” saying over 100 times in our lives perhaps. Well this doesn’t necessarily apply to people, and when we while we can’t change people we can change the way we handle our lives, and the situations we face.

We have needs and we have hopes, we believe and we expect—the problem is that we place our needs on the wrong things and our hopes in the wrong people thus we begin to expect from humans instead of expecting from God.

Take notes will ya? For self-love!

-This applies to all types of relationships and to anyone we meet-

  1. We can’t change anyone only God can, but people need to know God to want to change, and in order to know Him they need to meet Him First. An encounter needs to take place.
  2. If you don’t like something about someone you met don’t try to change them (self preaching) walk away, give freedom, don’t become a victim of the devils and fall on his trap. Keep walking and try again, there’s more people on this earth.
  3. When change is genuine it will be consistent, watch for sings of inconsistency—this could mean that change is only being produced by pressure not by free will. When change is only produce by pressure once that pressure is removed it will stop happening, change needs to happen on its own.
  4. Moving away from toxic energy, emotions, people, environments, mental and spiritual statuses will allow you to come in contact with yourself. If you’re not connected with yourself you’re not aware of what you want.
  5. If you’re too focused on everyone else, how they are, how they behave, what you don’t like about them, what makes you sick about them, what they don’t give you, what they don’t do for you, what they take away from you —YOU WILL END UP GIVING THEM EVERYTHING THAT YOU ARE and it will end up changing you. #youaremore

“Don’t lose your essence live in the beautiful of all the great things that you can be without the need of anyone showing you the way other than God” —DeniseK.

I know there’s more within you than the circumstance you’re facing right now!

Thank you for reading! As always with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby #livetolove

Sexual Addiction, Are You Ready to Unzip Your Soul?

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Sex addiction is a very delicate subject many people today are unaware of facing any & others are on absolute denial

Being that this is a faith-based blog and counseling site I will be discussing this topic from a Christian perspective, brace yourself and don’t lose hope!

According to the textbook Caring for People God’s Way, Sexual addiction starts with the “fantasy or preoccupation with sexual thought at the top of the cycle” (Clinton, Hart, Ohlschlager (2005). Many people today including believers of the faith, Christians and non-Christians are unaware of how easy it is to become sexually addicted and a larger number live in absolute denial. A lot of sex addicts want God’s supernatural intervention in their lives, in one way or another, but are not willing to surrender because they live in a world who tells them that “it is okay to please oneself”, the problem comes when we stop pleasing God to please ourselves.

       People who have been abuse, whether physically, mentally, sexually (sexually molested), emotionally or in any other form are more likely to become sexually addicted. Also, people who feel a sense of inferiority.

I believe that understanding the meaning of sexual addiction is the first step into understanding how to break free from it, because a lot of people still don’t believe this is an actual condition that involves neurochemicals. A person can become addicted by an initial act of curiosity, or by simply satisfying the bodies sensory feelings—this can create a routine that will eventually create and addictive pattern.

Once a person is too deep into the addiction the person can becomes depress, and satisfaction doesn’t come as easy anymore. It will usually come after a feeling of loneliness and in a lot of cases it will be followed by more emptiness. Which is usually the result of trying to fill a prior void (from the past-or present) that only the Spirit of God can fill, with something that will only bring temporary satisfaction. It is much like being thirsty and trying to fill a cup with water that has the bottom of it cut off over-and-over yet, obtaining the same results. We will never quench our thirst because we are not drinking anything, we are engaging in a wasteful act. Likewise, no matter how many times we engage in the act of sexual intercourse, masturbation or watch pornography on the internet, perhaps go out and rent or buy a prostitute that feeling (that void) will always be there.

Sexual addiction can lead to suicidal attempts

Now, since the person is feeling depressed and at times even suicidal the person begins to look for something that makes them feel better, to achieve the same effect and feed (in a sense) the chemicals that this addiction has created in their brain (Clinton et al., 2005). They go back to do more of what makes them feel good and provides them with the temporary medicine for their depression, serotonin. “Such a crisis will make one exquisitely aware of hopelessness and depression. Hopefully, it will also dawn on the addict that he/she is powerless and that a Higher Power alone can and will be there in that moment” (Healthyplace.com 2018).

With time the addiction begins to progress, and the way to deal with this is to ignore it or to change it. However, they start feeling lonelier, become angry, and the consequences can be terrible. Because where there is sexual immorality there is a separation from the Spirit of God. So, what is done initially to fill a void is now creating a deeper one, the whole cup is breaking, and the water is spilling all over the place.

Thankfully to all no one has died through submersion and inhalation that comes from a water that spills from a cup

Being aware of sexual problems can help us identify whether we have some or not, I say some because they vary. At one end of the spectrum are those who simply fantasize and masturbate. On the other end are those who commit sexual crimes.

When a person is emotionally hurt that person usually looks for ways to feel better and in most cases as humans who live in the flesh we like to do things to make ourselves feel better. “Abuse leaves addicts lonely, angry, frightened, and confused”(Clinton et al., 2005). We tend to say everyone is hurting me, everyone has hurt me, everyone will hurt me, I might as well love myself and do what makes me feel good, and this way I don’t have to worry about anyone else. Even when cheating on a spouse people can tend to think of themselves as total victims alone in the world.

Unfortunately doing these things on our own can lead us astray from the will of God and into the hands of the enemy, we begin to forget our purpose, our calling and who we are in Christ. Fortunately, there’s grace and hope for those who have gone astray, if they repent and seek the help they need and are willing to try it again with Christ. “For you were continually straying like sheep, but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Guardian of your souls.” (1 Peter 2:25)

References

Clinton, T., Hart, A., & Ohlschlager, G. (2005). Caring for people God’s way: personal and emotional issues, addictions, grief, and trauma. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson.

Depression and Sex Addiction: The Moment Between the Trapezes https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/sex-and-depression/depression-and-sex-addiction-the-moment-between-the-trapezes

If you or anyone you know is suffering of sexual addiction I encourage you to seek help and become free this is a link to a national and confidential help line https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline If you are a victim of sexual abuse I know anyone who is a victim of sexual abuse I exhort you to call the local authorities immediately and become a free person!

The following link is Jace Downey’s testimonial a very brave woman who shares her sexual addiction story with the world. Everything started when she was just 5 years of age https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5739355/sex-addiction-almost-killed-me-woman-dangerous-hookups-suicide/

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As always with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby #letsconnect

There’s More Ahead

It may seem like drought season but that sun in the horizon on the image above seems pretty aesthetic to me

I keep my eyes on the target (or at least try to regroup my thoughts to it throughout my day).

I recommend you not to focus on what is right in front of you but instead to look ahead! The prognosis can seem very complicated right now, uncertain, perhaps impossible, and it can actually be impossible right this moment; I understand you, but let your dreams take you back. Don’t lose hope!

Do you remember your childhood dreams? (not the super hero ones, wink-wink!) this is real life now.

Oh I was Wonder Woman btw (just an FYI!)

I still chase them (the achievable ones of course) and allow God to take me back to my childhood memories. I remember being unhappy sometimes at the things I didn’t have in life as I used to see my friends with things my mom couldn’t afford, I remember being sad of not having a dad and being molested by my step dad—I will never be able to have those years back and I can’t dream of having a dad and miraculously make one appear and be 8 all over again. But somehow in the midst of the pain and the uncertainty I would dream about all the things I wanted to be, (literally) I would night dream and day dream, act out and imagine myself being a Pastor and preaching hope and faith into the broken hearted, being a doctor taking care of kids, or a nurse helping people grownups.

When I became older and I begin to have a clearer notion of things I understood that things had been really bad in my childhood, worst than I thought at the ages 8,9,&10. I somehow lost it, at the age of 12/13 I saw a psychiatrist for the first time after I was intervene for the first time, things has taken a whole different path. Everything was clear now, I realized I was indeed molested, abused and had seen experienced and done more things I should never have at such a young age.

This is when my passion for helping others mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and even physically really evolved and I wanted to know how can one do that.

The point I’m trying to make here is that, I always had dreams of helping others. I wanted to be a pediatrician, then a nurse, later in life write a book (I still dream about that), then a psychologist and now I’m pursuing my PhD. Do you get what I’m saying here?

I allow God to remind me that I still can make them come alive. You can do the same. You can totally focus and center your thoughts, dreams and vision on the broader and bigger picture. The one NO ONE knows about your dreams.

Don’t focus your eyes on the mountains beside you, don’t center your eyes on the ground beneath you, walk down the path that will take you to the horizon in front of you” —Denise

You are the main author of your story everyone else comes as an extra, and God as the main director will give them the place He wants them to play, for specific purposes in some parts of your story. Some people are meant to stay for all seasons of your life, some others are only needed for certain seasons and others just for one or two. You as the main character my dear, will need to remain and prevail all the way till the end. A lot of times you will have to play alone.

Stay centered, focused, determined, oriented, following directions from the main director, and play along and walk that path!


If you or someone you know needs helps finding themselves please seek professional help. Life is better when you have guidance from someone who cares.

Remember that you’re not alone, I am here with you and for you.

Contact me if you need me!

As always with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby

Haz Bien Sin Mirar a Quien

Si todavía no está seguro de qué puede hacer diferente hoy aquí, le sugiero que “haga algo por alguien (al azar) que nunca haya hecho nada por usted”

La bondad es el mayor acto de amor y cuando mostramos bondad (especialmente amabilidad al azar) nos sorprendemos con cuán profundamente podemos amar y cuán incondicional es el amor de Dios para TODOS!

No trates de ser selectivo con la persona, porque si tratas de pensar en quién nunca ha hecho algo por ti, MUCHAS personas vendrán a esa lista, y las cartas se volverán a tirar de nuevo hacia a ti y no se trata de ti (no hoy) se trata de hacer y dar a alguien más.

No me malinterpretes, serás recompensado, pero tienes que aprender a ponerte por último (de todo corazón) para que Dios pueda ponerte primero.

Anota estos tres puntos de hoy muy importantes que te ayudarán a ser más claro mañana:

  1. No hagas por los demás solo porque se ve bien, al final todos sabrán la verdad. #verdad
  2. Da sin expectativa, aquellos que dan con amor SIEMPRE recibirán una recompensa desde arriba #confianza
  3. Ámate lo suficiente como para saber que no tienes que demostrar tu validez, tienes que ser tú mismo y esa será tu mejor prueba de lo que eres #aunteticidad

Se el cambio que quieres ver en otros, no esperes que alguien haga por ti lo que tú quieres, has tú por ellos lo que ellos quieren primero. Acuérdate del efecto del domino.

Este mensaje será traducido ahora en Inglés y el mismo fue una prueba para ver si hay audiencia Hispana la cual pueda ser edificada, por favor comenten si la hay para así poder compartir más mensajes en español en esta página o buscar un medio de traducción efectivo.

Gracias! —Denise Kilby ⬇️English⬇️


Do Good Without Looking at Whom

If you are still unsure of what you can do different today here I have a suggestion for you, “do something for somebody (randomly) who has never done anything for you”.

Kindness is the biggest act of love and when we show kindness (especially random kindness) we surprise ourselves with how deep we can love and how unconditional God’s love is for EVERYONE!

Don’t try to be selective about the person, because if you try to think about who has never done anything for you A LOT of people will come to that list, and the cards will turn to yourself AGAIN and this is not about you (not today) this is about doing and giving to someone else.

Don’t get me wrong you will be rewarded, but you have to learn how to put yourself last (wholeheartedly) so then God can put you first!

Take note of this very important three points who will help you be more clear tomorrow:

  1. Don’t do for others just because it looks good, at the end everyone will know the truth. #truth
  2. Give without expectation, those who give with love will ALWAYS receive a rearward from above #trust
  3. Love yourself enough to know that you don’t have to prove yourself, you have to be yourself and that will be your best proof of who you are #genuineness

Be the change that you want to see in others, do not wait for someone to do for YOU what you want first do for them what THEY want first. Remember the domino effect.

NOTE: The Spanish post was a trial to see if I have a Spanish audience who could also benefit from my blog and posts, please if you know anyone share the post and I will find the means and time to create more posts in Spanish or an effective translation tool so everyone can be well edified!

My beloved, my readers, my support, my clients, my motivation, as always with the best interest at heart

—Your coach and counselor, Denise Kilby

Don’t let what you don’t see NOW take your eyes away from what you KNOW despite of what you see in front of you!

Don’t let what you don’t see take your eyes away from what you KNOW despite of what you see in front of you!

I come to you with fervor anger to wake you up to help you understand that your current situation have been shaped by a series of circumstances not by a person nor a creator. Your creator is bigger! You are more! Don’t you worry by what is right in front of you, the battles you’re facing right now are something that will end despite of what you’re seeing, don’t try to fight them alone.

Are you physically fighting these battles? Phew, I didn’t think you were, unless you are reading me from a literal AND PHYSICAL war zone right now (and if that’s the case my respects and please BELIEVE Jesus will come through). Let’s continue; that is because these battle are not physical. Then how come we can feel beaten, how can we say we are going through a battle or that we are battling at all, and they are so exhausting and overwhelming, Denise?

Because they are spiritual. They drain us, we are humans, we worry, we become angry, we use it wrongly, we get anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, develop obsessive compulsive behaviors, sexual misconduct, become adulterous and A LOT MORE! Those are the battles we face everyday, some fight them some join them some only notice them when they are in too deep others don’t notice them at all and need to be save by someone else. There’s hope to fight if  you’re willing to give it a shot, there’s a devil who has his demons on the loose trying to keep the minds captives and making them feel all sort of negative feelings, unbalancing chemicals in the brain breaking marriages, corrupting children, bringing pornography to our homes, making our teenagers feel unworthy or grow an altered ego! YES!! THAT IS THE DEVIL’S DEMONS. Because the devil came to lie, to steal, kill and destroy. But there’s also a God, who came to bring life, abundant life (John 10:10). This is all a spiritual battle, if yoou’re not physically fighting it you’re mentally fighting it. A lot of people believe in the satan but fail to believe in God, how about we say “not today satan, not today I made a choice to believe that good things come to those who pray and believe in good things!”

Who are you willing to fight for today? Is it for your children, your marriage, your friend, your job, your spirituality, your wholeness, your health, or a love one, perhaps a stranger? Whatever, whoever it is! There’s hope! Be patience and do what every season requires of you to do.
I am fighting today for my house, for my children, for my health (in all aspects) and for everyone in this world who needs a good fight in prayer. That is why I write and share this message with you.

Enjoy the seasons in your life and remember that there’s always two tests that you have to pass

Who you are when you have a lot and who you are when you have less, these are the tests of faith.

  1. What do you choose to believe during drought season? Do not let what you see cloud your spiritual vision, you know that conviction that you feel in your heart what many people call a “gut feeling”.
  2. Do you think it’ll rain again, does it look like it’ll spring again? Let your intuition guide you to positive thoughts that will eventually take you to positive things in life. Learn how to connect with the things that you don’t see but that you do want to see and let go of negative thinking. #hope .
  3. Who do you believe? Connect with the source of life don’t live in a world filled with beautiful things and beautiful people feeling empty.
  4. Do you believe the people who are saying that spring will never come or do you believe what you have known your whole entire life? (be careful with that spring always comes) Will nature continue to take its natural course even though the current circumstances are saying otherwise?  When you have your spirit centered in greater things your faith grows in the super natural and you begin to see things possible, you believe there’s hope for growth, change, overcoming, prosperity, wealth, health, wisdom, and faith begins to bloom. You will no longer see as the world sees you will see things that are not as if the ordinary sees it and you will believe the impossible possible. #faith
  5. What do you know, what have you learned throughout your life, what has God showed you? What you know about life and what you have learned are just part of the process, part of the walk, part of the battle, part of the scars necessary to mark you and shape your tomorrow. What you have learned from it is what will give you the ultimate victory! Do not be anxious about anything! — #certainty

The Meaning of Faith

Now faith is the assurance that what we hope for will come about and the certainty that what we cannot see exists. By faith our ancestors won approval.” (Hebrews 11:1-2)

Sometimes you have to be angry to try to save someone and when I’m angry I write to inspire change, and hope”—Denise

Which reminds me of Martin Luther King Jr. , I love his quote below.

“I find nothing that promotes work better than angry fervor. For when I wish to compose, write, pray and preach well, I must be angry. It refreshes my entire system, my mind is sharpened, and all unpleasant thoughts and depression fade away.” –Martin Luther

#Passion #love #anger #calling #future #inspiration

My beloved readers: I write, pray and believe in faith that what I share here with you for free, by grace because it was given to me by grace will have a great impact in your lives and the lives of those with whom you decide to share it with.


“Please remember that this is with the intention to inform, encourage, motivate, and educate not to replace any medical advice. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified mental halth provider wih any questions you may have regarding medical conditons”

Email me where it says “contact”, text or call me (if no answer leave a voicemail!), you can also contact me on intagram with any questions, do not try to solve problem on your own, this is for you to know that you are more and you’re not alone I am here to guide you and hold your hand.

With love, passion, willingness, and your best interest at heart,

—Denise Kilby


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