Let’s Discover the Why

Wednesday Wedge: we all have a why

My heart aches when I know/hear of individuals out there suffering, and having their lives destroy by source they reached out to, to feel compete, unsure of the true reason for their actions and lacking to understand motives.

When they’re asked “why do you engage in such behaviors?”, most of the time we get the answer that nobody wants to hear [not even themselves] “I DON’T KNOW”.

That answer usually comes accompanied by a defensive attitude, as individuals often feel judge, attacked, fearful, confused, exposed.

The true reason for it again, is that most individuals who engage in these negative behaviors and habits lack to understand that there’s a reason behind every action.

We are not looking to excuse the behavior, we are looking to discover the why, to help you overcome falling into that trap over and over again.

Let’s fill the void with a life lasting source.

Ask me how. I am here waiting.

You’re not alone, you don’t have to try to figure this out on your own.

©️2021 Denise Kilby New Hope MHCLC. All rights reserved.


Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others. After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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