Be Careful What You Wish For or Discernment For Our Prayers?

“Perhaps we’re not being mistreated nor ignored by people in life—perhaps this is God LOUD and clear answering our prayers and detaching us from that tree that bears bad fruit” when we say “Lord deliver us from evil”-(Matt6:13)” For a bad tree cannot bear good fruit”-(Matt:7-18) Unless that tree is replanted in good soil (gets to knows God…)

We all have prayed for the wrong thing and we all have insisted enough to the point where God says, give it a shot and let me know how it goes”—Denise K

Sometimes the mistake is made on that initial prayer, they say “be careful what you wish” for I say “discernment for our prayers” from the beginning we have to ask God for discernment to know what comes from Him and learn to LISTEN to Him. There are consequences when we take up and do our own will even after we know that He is telling us something else. A lot of time people don’t know which direction to take in life and that is understandable we are humans. But we need to learn how to ask and seek for guidance.

Not only our spiritual life is at risk here but our MENTAL HEALTH. How much we suffer when don’t know the root of our problems…ugh; just the thought adds weight to my shoulders.

We are not God to help everyone!

We have to remember that “HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE” now, this is not a free pass from jail-nor a free admission to hurting our hearts and letting people eat away our soul- but this should teach us when its time to stay & when we have been set free!

Please listen, set boundaries:

Physically help those who want that physical help, this doesn’t mean pick them up and take them somewhere, what this mean is do things that could actually imply growth if the person is willing (i.e., #psychotherapy #guidance #coaching #grouptherapy etc.

For those who don’t want that, pray and learn that it’s time to move on! Don’t let their manipulations take your peace away and eat your heart out of bitterness.

Your mind, your heart and spirit ARE connected thus you need peace, health and freedom to save your soul. A bitter heart will eat away all of the above.

#Peace #love #intuitiveliving #coaching

When people are willing to change they will take steps that will leave a trance called consistency for those who come behind them to follow”—Denise K

I hope this was encouraging!

As always making a little bit of time to give by grace what by grace I have received.

“Don’t be afraid to learn from your experiences and let your voice inspire growth in someone else’s life, speak freedoms” —Denise K

With the best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby


Published by Denise Kilby BCACLC

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying the word of God, and expanding my view of life to help others. After studying and obtaining a degree in Psychology Christian Counseling, Crisis Counseling and Life Coaching at Liberty University I obtained a diploma in Life Coaching out of the missteps of life. I became certified as an Advanced Mental Health & Christian Life Coach through the American Association of Christian Life Counselors (AACC). Obtaining my international credentialing through the National and International Board of Christian Life Coaches (IBCLC) & the International Board of Christian Care (IBCC). As a fibromyalgia fighter, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, and sexual molestation over-comer I consider myself a victorious woman, who has been born for a time as this. My mission is to inspire with my testimony, empower with the word of God and encourage by instilling positive change, to equip others with life lasting tools. My vision is to help others live to their full God given potential. My objective it to share my life vision with those who are blind-folded by pain or circumstance and have lost hope, & become stuck in a rut but long for a change. I am a mother of three blessings I get to call children; two boys and a girl, wife of a man from whom I've learn to build character everyday of our journey together. I live in the blessing of knowing that I am a daughter of God Almighty. My advise to you, with the best love I have, “Don't stop learning, becoming, and believing in yourself-there’s a world that needs your help” Denise Kilby

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